Hi. My name is Alexya, and I'm a tank.
I'd like to think I'm a pretty good tank too. I know my role, I mark my targets, pickup adds, the whole lot. I even make a habit of commending DPS who show that they're thinking outside the "max dmg!" box. You know, the BRD's who silence a spell, the DRG's and MNK's who stun and debuff and what not. The SMN's and BLM's who pull off the clutch pet OT or CC, or just wow me with how well they manage to kick ass without taking aggro. That kinda thing.
I'm always courteous. Because this is a game and I deal with enough assholes IRL. Besides, it's just nice. Get what you give sorta thing.
Naturally, I have a lot friends who aren't tanks, many of them DPS. For awhile, I was the only tank in my FC, so I got a lot of work. I've heard the stories about long queue times and primadonna tanks who fly off the handle when a mob is killed .5s too late and what not. But I've never EXPERIENCED it.
And then Crystal Tower was released. And I was thrust into a whole new world with four or five other tanks I did not know.
Let me just say.....wow. I mean....wow. Stories are one thing, but experience is something else entirely. Ho-lee shit. There are some monumental dicks out there, and they allllll seem to have picked a tank class to play.
My experience tonight was to have a warrior with inferior gear and experience try to tell me how to do my job in CT, and then proceed to die on the last boss. You know....the one with the amazingly telegraphed moveset that can be avoided in your sleep? Yeah, that one. It was like this for the entire last half of the instance. We also had that one tank who doesn't give a crap about your "buffing" or "being ready" who decides to pull when half the alliance is outside the boss zone, and then berates people for taking too long.
I once was blind, but now I see. And on behalf of those asshole tanks everywhere, I apologize. Truly the crap you guys have to wade through is some of the stinkiest out there.