Failed at Brayflox - or Why I Suck at FFXIV

[MirielleLavandre]

I'll echo what everyone else here has - read the compendium linked and maybe upgrade some gear. Tanks will always have a hard time the first time in Brayfox due to the way it requires more healing than any dungeon beforehand (so WHM/SCH will need to actually cure much more than they are used to), and due to the more unique and challenging mechanics compared to the starter dungeons. As to the WHM dealing damage...all I can say is that if they noticed you already had a few enmity issues, and yet they still cast damage spells or god forbid went into cleric stance to do so, then it is their own fault. Any good healer who sees the tank is having problems keeping hate will try to use cures as sparingly as possible (unless you're just not holding any hate at all..in which case they may need to spam to keep you alive), and won't be DPSing.

Also, not that you want to be an egotistical meanie...but if they are talking to you in the language you used in the OP, I'd tell them once to calm down and that you're learning. If they keep it up, just leave. It is a game, and there is no call for insults or abuse (which is bannable, btw, on their part). Plus, to be quite frank, the DD especially have long queues...you have none. If they are aggressive and rude to you, then maybe they haven't waited in their DD queue long enough (and no, I'm not PLD main -- I'm bard main and that is coming from a dps who is actually nice to tanks since I am one as well).