Honestly, if the team was as geared as you say, then there's no reason you should have had any issue. Well geared people don't take much healing.

Most people who act like idiots "showing off" are actually terrible and take tons of avoidable damage. They aren't good, and end up being carried by healers that are forced to try to heal their stupidity.

I don't care if you have a relic +1 (I have one, too)... don't stand in fire. Use defensive CDs. Stop being an idiot. You aren't saving time, you are just being a sloppy idiot that takes as much damage as a noob tank, but think it's "okay" because you're so cool in your gear.

No- you are proof that even a total failure can wear high end gear.

-and "teehee" to the idiot jumping ranged dps that pulls and tries to "tank" because they are so geared... they survive because they have a top notch healer that can spam "curemoron", not because they are any good.