I don't know what server you were on, but unless I was doing something with my LS and our partner LS, a lot of us had this happen to us everyday. In fact, the only thing that really saved FFXI from the elitist atmosphere was Abyssea because at that point, all the uber gear became worthless and by the time you reached 99, pretty much everyone was wearing the same outfit (because getting it was not hard, just time consuming). Prior to that, however, I remember being kicked from a Qufim party because I still had on my rank gear (level 10 conquest point exchange), and I was the damn healer in a grind party. And this wasn't something recent, this was before ToAU. Nowadays, you can get away with doing a book burn with no subjob wearing RSE until you max out. I loved FFXI, but I met more jackasses there then I have here. At least in FFXIV, you can pretty much do everything alone and when you are forced into an instance with a group, going with people you know makes it more fun. I have yet to meet a stranger who checks my gear and asks me to leave and maybe that's because when using duty finder, you're just grateful you got a group in under an hour and don't feel like waiting again.