Why so much hate from players?

[Sil3ntxR3qui3m]

I wasn't angry when it came to Ifrit run. Was my first time fighting him, tank was horrible and kept using the stone wall even when we knew it didn't work. I said multiple times to use the lancer's limit break and he didn't listen to me for the longest time. So, we died a few more times before he got the picture. Then the right person used the right limit break on that damn nail and all was well. I'm not mad at the players, just the fact that I couldn't beat him. Happens a lot when I play games. When I can't beat something, whether it's my fault or someone else's, I get mad. Did I speak rudely to the tank? No, I just repeatedly told him to leave his limit break alone and don't touch the button because obviously using stone wall with the nail wasn't working. That's all.

[Hanmerreborn]

I wasn't angry when it came to Ifrit run. Was my first time fighting him, tank was horrible and kept using the stone wall even when we knew it didn't work...

I don't even have limit break on my bar. It seems completely pointless as a tank at the lower dungeons from my experience so far.

My dps experiences have varied from amazing to horrible. Had an archer last night that just absolutely refused to kill adds on boss fights (those fire orbs in that mine dungeon that explode when they reach the boss), making tanking the boss incredibly difficult because now I'm dpsing so we don't wipe which means I don't have TP for savage strike combos, or not attack the MT for trash (even when marked), making aoe tanking a pain in the ass because I'm forced to constantly reposition and chase mobs around the entire damn dungeon.