A few things need to fix for FF14 to be more enjoyable

[Kilta_Firelotus]

Most people Consider a game an RPG when you have a deep choice in how the character develops not how you are playing the individual Character.

In most Zelda Games you have no choice in how the character developes you are stuck with what the game gives you.
In RPG's you determine stats, gear, skills, spells, weapons,

Your description means Halo, Half Life, Gears of War, etc are all Roleplaying Games.

Zelda is an old style rpg. Rpg used to be about quests and story with mild character progression. And in zelda your progression is via hearts and different weapons/ armor you get. And you get heart by exploring dungeons, defeating bosses, exploring the field, doing quests.