Some suggestions, mostly quality of life, obvious things

[Girlie]

... In the chat box, make it so /r will always reply to the last person you whispered. (It works sometimes and sometimes it doesn't. Not sure why.)

The reason is because 'r' stands for reply/respond, so it's going to the last person to whisper to you, not the last person you whispered. You can also hit it multiple times (or Alt+r) to cycle through people who have recently sent tells to you.

Currently you can select in options to enable or disable Auto sort of Inventory, Its just not in the Inventory window.

I may be missing something but can one of the FFXIV admins please post a link or explain where i can get a manual like those downloadable in the Beta, it really explained a lot of features

Here it is: http://na.finalfantasyxiv.com/lodestone/playguide/ I actually just found that a couple hours ago. =)