I stopped helping/stopped caring to help other people I do not care for in this game more then a year now. After all the messed up things I have seen in this game, and no I won't openly help people out again. I am actually surprised I am still playing this game honestly.
But yes at one time I did used to help out any random stranger, and I loved doing it, but after meeting purely stubborn people that think they play thier class "perfectly", unwillness to take advice from others, blame others for thier lack of competent play, people using others for thier own selfish needs, and jealously toward others that can do content that they can't, even when those players offer a helping hand to them, but instead is meet with childish rages, and also those that want to be completely carried in all content with no effort on thier part on anything. I have lefted several FC's because of this stuff.
This type attitude only helps to create, I hate using these words, but a divide between casual/hardcore player base where each side will outright belittle eachother over the smallest of things, and neither side has any willingness to let go, and give up on some ground. Where they are not blinded by thier own bias opinions.
I don't know about the JP/EU server base. But NA majority of players just want instant gratification with very little work, effort, determination put into anything. But instead wait for content nerfs, gear catch up mechanics, carries where content becomes meaningless to do. While it loses the meaningful reward it had for doing it in the first place.
Let's be real in NA it's all about the ME, ME, ME complex that divides our community.
