It's ok, now you know that not everyone plays for the same reasons or play the same. I have JP LS and NA LS. Both play extremely different.
NA players select only certain jobs. My JP LS doesn't care as long as everyone has fun and everyone is included. If item drops, everyone is happy that the person got it. If it doesn't drop we all gather together and light up fireworks for accomplishing the kill.
NA players grip about who got what and who didn't get what they wanted. They like to share. Help as a team. We sometimes do different limbus zones each party but join the same party for chat. All coins went to leader so they could make ultima and omega events.
My JP LS never gripes about losing or what we get. We just hope that everyone was included and everyone has fun.
NA LSs don't want players that are gimp.
My JP LS members always apologize that they were not as powerful as others but everyone who more powerful find the need to be the seniority Make sure the lower levels can get what they need so they can achieve power and catch up.
In 10 years in my JP LS I've only had the opportunity to lot 3 big items. The rest I pass every single item so that the lower levels who don't have the same skill, ability to play or accomplish more than me or the rest of us who has more or have the independent ability to do it on our own
Honestly I just don't care. I just love how they are so friendly, and how they make the event great. I've learned to see the events we do for what they are.
Spending time with each other and doing stuff.
Everyone is grateful, thankful and appreciative that we act like a real family who help each other learn the game. They never discriminate base of jobs or power.
I've passed tons upon tons of Umbral Marrow for LS members working on Relic They are the ones who only have 2-3 AF3 gear VS me who has AF3 sets complete fully upgraded.
Difference? I'm not working on Relic weapon path and i don't need it.
JP players in my LS do not put items, Gil or personal needs before others. They are always asking if anyone including me being the only NA member in my LS If I ever need anything to let them know.
I just happen to know that this is a game. People come first. Items are virtual materials that can tear apart friendships and lead to discriminating others for self gain, selfish desires.
It's like once we reach a certain level or a certain power, its our duty to be like the older brother and sister who take care of the little younger brother or sister. Why? Because what we do effect the community and if we never help, those who fall behind will never catch up nor be able to do anything fun like us.
Part of making the game fun isn't just the content. It's you as an individual that can make it fun for yourself and others.
This is why I understand Asian community after all I'm Korean. We play together for fun, friendship, and giving people we play with a reason to enjoy the game for a much higher reward than items, Gil and materials. Our reward is about feeling happy we could do something good for others.
That's a far better reward than some item taking up inventory space and being replaced or becoming irrelevant after the next few updates.
I rather choose people I can do stuff together with, help them knowing that I have the power to help. Give people a good feeling of being happy that they accomplished something. Drop whatever I'm doing to pay attention to someone else's needs than my own. And when people do it for me, this is the better reward.
When I ask people if they wanna do stuff and they never say no. That's far more rewarding.
If they need help and I can do it, seeing then happy that they got their item or gear, quest done makes me happy that my time was spend with them and not about me.
So yeah we do play for different reasons.
And this is why I don't login and play as much as before. I'm just sick of seeing how the community has become so selfish and only care about virtual items than playing together for fun.
So many people tell me OMG I spent months killing Kirin 22 times, Byakko 30 times, this boss that boss and it drops on the first run with you.
Maybe its a blessing that comes back to you when you do things for others with good intentions.
All I know is once you let go of caring about items and start caring about others. You start to see the game different and have a different outcome in everything you do.


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