Why are people afraid of wipes? So what? Get up and go again!
Would you allow a healer to go "You stand in it you heal it"? No, cause its their job to keep you alive. Such is the same with YPYT. its Your job to maintain aggro and keep the mobs and their aoes (terms and conditions apply) on you. Would a tank being the first to pull make it easier? Yes. is it hard to get aggro back from another player? No, a aoe, any aoe would do. (unless there is like something majorly wrong with gear or the tank isn't AOE/Attacking)
Don't get me wrong, doesn't mean the other party member is not at fault, either. Everyone is. Communicate!!! Just Communicate you want bigger pulls, or communicate why you're taking smaller ones.
But do not let someone die for pulling. That is, Refer to
https://support.na.square-enix.com/f...la=1&kid=68216 the TOS where it says:
Aiding the enemy / Uncooperative behavior / Lethargic behavior
Refers to an act of performing actions that give an advantage to an enemy (monsters, or the opposing team/players in PvP content) by not performing the necessary gameplay required of the situation. This may be combined with combat sabotage as well
yes it also states that
Each player has a different level of skill, and in some cases, there may be a situation where the duty/content will fail. From the perspective of a skilled player in such a situation, a less skilled player may appear to be "adversarial/uncooperative/apathetic," but even if this is the case, it is not a violation as long as the player is playing appropriately.
Focus on the "
it is not a violation as long as the player is playing appropriately."
Letting someone die is not appropriate, no matter what they did, if you wipe, wipe, communicate, and move on or leave. As a tank its their job to hold and matain aggro and as the hall of novice says:
https://i.imgur.com/BwPQWFQ.png