Originally Posted by
Folsom
Also same. Even Reddit and Twitter tend to be less toxic than the official FFXIV forums, and that's saying something since they can both be... well, pretty darn toxic. I tend to stay away from these forums for that reason and have only been buzzing around here the last few days to scrape up information about housing and a potential resolution. And, of course, I come here and immediately see "The devs are the same as the WORST outside developer I can THINK OF." Then there's the "the devs are not your friends!" thread where, I don't know, people think being casually rude and crappy to the devs is better than being casually friendly and familial with them. And, of course, the ever present, "whatever tone I take is deserved!" and "I'm actually being nice even though I'd probably get punched if I said that in person" etc.
It's all very exhausting and sort of justifies the opinions a lot of people outside of the gaming world have of gamers.