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and imo they was being equally rude :P same for you. No one has a right to assume the stance of others, or pick fights with people who has different experiences.
You talk about how rude it is to pick fights with other people, yet here you are: still picking fights with everyone who disagrees with you. Still calling people names; calling people rude for calling you out on your own condescension and rudeness.
Also, the definition of anecdote:
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Anecdote
—noun
1. a short account of a particular incident or event, especially of an interesting or amusing nature.
2. a short, obscure historical or biographical account.
Anecdotal
—adjective
1. pertaining to, resembling, or containing anecdotes: an anecdotal history of jazz.
2. (of the treatment of subject matter in representational art) pertaining to the relationship of figures or to the arrangement of elements in a scene so as to emphasize the story content of a subject. Compare narrative (def 6).
3. based on personal observation, case study reports, or random investigations rather than systematic scientific evaluation: anecdotal evidence.
There. Now that you have the definition of anecdote and ancedotal, perhaps you can start to use them correctly. Which you have not been doing this entire back-and-forth.
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From my past mmo, and endgame experience + coil + extremes most of my deaths had been due to healers not healing. I also never said ppl are immune to mistakes, but if people lack communication they are partly at fault for a run going south. People just don't wanna be told they are at fault. They rather point fingers.
Healers not healing? They’re at fault for failing to fulfill their designated role in a duty. Not you, not the tanks, not the other DPS, not the entire party. Just the healers are at fault. If they weren’t topping people off, and people went down because of it, it is no one’s fault than their’s.
How and why does a healer need communication to say “RAID WIDE AOE DAMAGE PLEASE HEAL PEOPLE”? That should be inherent, especially if they are attempting endgame content. If a healer doesn’t know by the time they reach endgame that they need to heal people, they shouldn’t be doing that content. Heck, they shouldn’t be a healer period.
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I'm not being passive aggressive. I met ppl in many mmo with similar mindset, and most of the time they are rude. I personally find a few of the post are rude for no reason. Some of yours some of theirs, some of other peoples.
Like your posts are rude for no reason?
And please stop with the generalizations and assumptions. You don’t want people to assume things about you, but it’s okay for you to just assume things about them?
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Rude as in claiming I don't run content cuz I don't got mounts. Claim I didn't play 30 mmo the long term, which is easy in this day and age.
You have said yourself you have done no Alexander Savage or Omega Savage, yet you are sitting here trying to argue over mechanics that you have no idea what they are because you haven’t done/don’t do the content. Tank doesn’t mitigate Punishing Heat, a glaringly obvious tankbuster? They are at fault; not the healer, not the OT, not any of the DPS. A healer screws up Unstable Gravity in V2S and doesn’t get knocked back for Tank/Healer Long Drop, killing all 4 DPS? They are at fault. Same as if it was a DPS that didn’t get knocked back during DPS Long Drop, and who killed both tanks and both healers. Yet you continue to argue these mechanics and more in content you have never done. So you do not have the right expertise to sit here and argue with us over them.
Really, what you’re doing isn’t arguing, but trying to deflect and/or redirect the blame to the party. I’m sorry, but, as a BRD, if the tank doesn’t use a CD and dies, that is his fault. Not mine. It’s not my job to tell him “Now, PLD, please use Sentinel for that tankbuster—oh, nevermind.” Players in Savage and Ex content should know how to play their job, and not need someone to tell them: “That’s a tankbuster, please mitigate it next time.” “...I asked you to mitigate it...” “POP A COOLDOWN, PLEASE.” Even in learning groups, after dying to the mechanic once, a tank should realize “Damn, that hurts a lot. I need to use [cooldown] there so I don’t die.” Same thing for healers with AOE healing: “Dimensional Wave kind of hurts; I should definitely have Medica II pre-casting and ready there.” Or “I should use my Indom there” or “Aspected Benefic time!”.
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People like duelgunner who stuff apparently that my posts go above their head. I think you guys need to take a steo back and SLOWLY read your posts. you guys do come off aggressive, like heaven forbid people not want parser. People who don't, have experience mostly negative from the people who used them. And you lot are not helping with how some of your posts come off.
Perhaps you should consider your own advice, and think about how your posts come off. When myself and the other posters who respond to you fight to remain civil, even in light of the condescending emotes and name-calling (which, yes, you have done, in case you have forgotten).
I’ve already read through this reply three times trying to remain cordial, though it’s extremely hard to do at this point.
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I just gave my 2 cents, and instead of a discussion on the how/why im just told I'm wrong "because" . How is that a discussion? Maybe stop assuming peoples mindset and actually talk instead of assuming.
No, what you have done is argue that you’re right, and everyone who disagrees with you is wrong and/or rude and/or “an E”. You haven’t really added anything to this discussion other than paint more anti-parser users in a negative light. Not all anti-parser users are like you, I’m sure, but you aren’t doing the “no parser” side any favors with your behavior.
As for the “because”, that is false. Everyone gave you reasons as to why you were wrong. You just choose to ignore them because they destroy any and all of your arguments. I’m not going to list them all here—the walls of text posters left in response to you are there for others to see and judge.
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you know you can be less rude about replying to him and it isn't much an anecdotal, as a few people in this thread have had similar experience. Being dismissive over the experience of others doesn't help foster a good discussion.
I wasn’t being rude. I personally found it more rude to say “How many MMOs have you played?” when that has no bearing on a discussion centered around a single MMO and a built in feature in THAT SPECIFIC MMO. And please, once again, refer to the definitions of what “anecdote” and “anecdotal” means.
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DCUO has a built in parser, and imo it ruined the community. Instead of working as a team, people solo'ed trying to be number 1.
This is an opinion (as you say, “imo”). This is a PERSONAL OBSERVATION with no scientific or quantifiable data to back it up. This is a personal experience. Therefore, it is anecdotal.
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My g/f and I quit wow (at different times) simple due the community require you have a parser.
My g.f got lvl 46 warlock, and tried joining a guild to meet ppl. Every she asked guild required her to DL a list of add on, she explained she wasn't allowed to DL addons due to sharing a pc, and every reply she got back was "your lazy" "you're just looking for a carry"
I quit for similar reasons, the community wasn't great and too many requirements for something simple. WoWcrendor has several joke videos about it lol.
More anecdotes.
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it really depends on the ff11 server, and when you played parser were not a huge thing around ps2 NA launch, it was around 2006-2008 that parser started ti be a thing with windower. and 2008-2011 with abyssea is went people were extremely cruel about them. raging in people for not gear swapping, even if they had no gear to do so. This is just during exp groups too. till the mentality switch to large leech fests using dungeon books.
This seems like more anecdotes, since I still don’t see any quantifiable evidence to back up these claims. I have friends who played FFXI and LOVED IT. Never had anything negative to say about the community—one still occasionally plays it and got another one of my friends into it. But again, that is another anecdotal experience based off of their personal observations. Not quantifiable. Not solid evidence that parsers destroy communities.
The one day I played FFXI, while there weren’t many players around, the ones that were, were nice. They actually said hello to me and greeted me as a new player. That never happened when I first started playing FFXIV. But again, my personal experience doesn’t say anything about either community as a whole. Unless there is quantitative data showing “Parsers destroyed FFXI” or “Parsers make FFXIV players mean”, no one can say for sure, without a doubt, 100% truth, that either case is the case.
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please look up what cherry picking means :) As well as assumption.
Dualgunner is not cherry-picking your posts. She responded to them in full, the exact opposite of what cherry-picking is. For others that didn’t respond to your ramblings in full, perhaps they just don’t have the energy to repeat themselves, or repeat what others have already said. If you want an example of cherry-picking, here is one: “John cherry-picked the verses from the Bible that he chose to live by, rather than live by the Bible as a whole.” Again, considering that dualgunner, myself, and so many others have tried to respond to your posts in full, and not just pick pieces to “attack” and ignore the rest, that’s not cherry-picking.
Dualgunner bringing up your statement of parsers is just her showing that you’re contradicting yourself with an earlier statement: “I never said I was against parsers”, yet you claimed “Parsers destroy communities.” That’s an insinuation that you’re very much against them, or at least view them negatively, and not neutrally.
I also love how you call people out for supposed assumptions, which you just assume people are being inherently rude when they respond to something they disagree with. Disagreement =/= rudeness. Miste is probably the least rude person I know on this forum, yet you called her rude.
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You are kinda proving the point the the community around the tool are very negative. Also for the communication part. That is not the best way to communicate. You can't give advice by belittling the person, or calling them out.
"hey, <player 1> i main <player 1's job> want some tips to increase damage? then wait for a yes or no. If he/she says no don't press it. communication =/= forcing advice down ppl throat.
And yet, if that person is refusing to listen to advice and refusing to improve, why should a party be forced to deal with them? They very obviously aren’t willing to cooperate with the group (something you keep preaching—group content is group content, and all members should cooperate with the others); why should the group carry them through content if they aren’t going to pull their weight? Such things you don’t even need a parser to see (e.g., a Bard not keeping up Straight Shot or using songs, a DRG not using BotD or Heavy Thrust, a NIN not using Mudras, etc.).
I do my best to offer advice for jobs I am well-versed in in-game, and for fights that I am familiar with, but the minute someone I give advice to (be it for jobs or mechanics) gets snippy with me, they have lost all sense of deserving any sort of respect or courtesy. Respect and courtesy are things you earn, not things you demand.
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also that is not saying the tool is bad, the community around the tool is bad.
Which is a broad generalization that you cannot support with anything other than personal experience and anecdotal evidence. Ever stopped to consider, if you are having so many negative experiences, perhaps the problem doesn’t lie with others, but with yourself?