Personally, I made it clear from the outset I don't really care about the icon much in and of itself. I never liked the original icon and it continues, unfortunately, to look bad to me.
However, there's more than a few here who doubt that this phobia (and it is debatable if it is one in the usual sense) would be triggered to the degree claimed by that icon; I certainly consider that claim to be dubious, as someone who actually experiences this sense of disgust – that is, when the imagery is actually up to the task to "trigger" it. If some want to adopt the rather typical stance of "you don't get to judge how someone is affected by a phobia or isn't", let's apply that consistently and give the other ones, like aichmophobia a fair shot. Not that I’d want that affecting game design, but you know…
Also, I don't think anyone advocating for them to listen to player requests has ever made the argument they should entertain each and every one. They are aware of the fact that they're making competing demands on the devs. Out of that process, there will be winners and losers, and mostly arguments arise over competing visions for the game and uses of resources. We know this from how the design of male Viera turned out, for example. At a certain point, the threshold is reached where certain players find the game is no longer for them, and before reaching that point, rather than being the frog that doesn't even realise it's being boiled, they speak out against such changes. You saw as much with the male Viera, and granted, you were courteous about expressions of disappointment with the design. Nonetheless, unanimity will not be achieved on such matters and the devs are surely aware of this complexity each time they grant a request. Yoshi
identified it himself when discussing the matter of removing genderlocks.
So they're not oblivious to the mixed reception certain changes can have... and once more, this discussion is not just limited to the icon design in and of itself (which we can agree is trivial), but the other things I mentioned as well. To proceed on the basis that this is all about an icon’s look is a trifle inaccurate, and in the case of some posts (not you), disingenuous.