Originally Posted by
LineageRazor
As evidenced by Jade's post, with the proper permissions a friend can do a LOT with your private residence. If your friends are manipulating furnishings, gardening, stabling chocobos, etc, then personally I'd consider that house to be "lived in", even if the actual owner has to be away from the game for a while. Remember, the goal of auto demolition is (or should be) to free up housing that's not being used. If your friends are using your house, then yes, your house is being used.