Originally Posted by
van_arn
Ultimately, that's your line to draw.
There's a point in the sand where, if Square were to action you, you'd shrug at them and say "so what?"
Because if they'd action you for what you felt was necessary to enjoy the game, they no longer provide a game you'd care to play.
In my own case, I kick tanks that refuse to pick up adds whether a dps pulled them or not. And I don't care if Square leaps to their defense. So what.
I've only needed to do it a handful of times over the time I've played, but the vote always succeeds (remember, the dps tanked for the tank so I get a free yes vote on the kick) and a GM *never* comes calling.
I'd simply say the tank refused to tank, so I got rid of them with my party. The GM cannot object without destroying my confidence in the leadership of the game.