Originally Posted by
Greatguardian
That depends on your definition of nice, really.
My general policy is always to wait for a full wipe assuming I've had no contact, or polite contact with the group that's fighting. However, if the group that's fighting and half-wiping to the NM has a moron or two that likes to run their mouth in /say or /tell, then I'll be significantly less inclined to do them any favors.
Likewise, if I take an NM off a failing group either by request of their party leader or due to a wipe and they aren't complete assbags to me for it, I'll often invite them to lot on half the drops (yes, half. If you want full drops, don't wipe). If the group refuses to lose gracefully and decides to spam me with hate tells/says/shouts, there's no way in hell I'm inviting them for anything. What's worst of all is when people start demanding that you invite them for drops right after chewing you out. Do they really expect someone to give them free stuff after being screamed at?
With that said, I still feel like people are basically being sore losers in this thread. If you let people die, fail to take the proper actions to maintain your claim, or otherwise wipe, expect to lose your monster. It should not come as a huge surprise to anyone when other people take claim when you fail. When that happens, and it's your own fault, accept the loss gracefully and move on. Chalk it up as a learning experience and take steps to prevent a loss the next time.
The only legitimate complaint that could be had here would be players intentionally curebombing or MPK'ing with other mobs/NMs in order to steal an NM, and that is GM'able.