Originally Posted by
Nadda
A few years has passed in game time since ARR.
I think ARR-HW was one year.
Stormblood another year.
Shadowbringers At least three? Not counting the time dilation that passed in the First.
I'd say by Dawntrail It's been Four years.
That's not to say "Hehe legal age so it's all daijoubu" like ew no. Nor am I someone who discounts context just because characters are fictional.
Like, yes, not all fiction ascribes to the morality of the Real World, but let's cut the pretense we know very well that's twisting things for bad ends.
I reckon that it's natural for Alisae to have a crush/admire the WoL greatly. However, people want to view that as fine.
I also think it's fine to have a crush on Alisae as a player, not because of her age, but because you like the qualities of her character, which in a vacuum, separated from everything, is also completely normal.
You're not crushin' on Alisae cuz of her age or I'd at least hope not. You can find qualities of a character attractive. She's strong and brave. Wears her emotions on her sleeve. Deeply caring and passionate - what's not to like?
I mean, people crush on G'raha Tia, and he's technically lived for several hundred years in the first. People find it weird in real life when a younger lady dates an older man, for example? Is liking G'raha the same? or "Well he has the body of a 23-year-old so Hehe... it's all daijoubu" or Emet Selch and he's lived a thousand thousand lives as you may have heard, and sired children, is it weird for such a being to couple with a lady who is by all means a lesser creature in his own eyes?
Even I, as a Lalafell, sort of ship my Character and Tataru together. But it's not like a physical sexual thing... it's just I like Tataru as a character. She feels like a safe anchor point for my adventuring hero, someone to return home to, who cares about me and is frugal with finances, is always looking out for me in small ways that isn't being a battle companion. Nothing in the game explicitly makes these interactions romantic; it's just how I feel. A love for a character doesn't always have to come from a weird, dirty place.
In the end, people are gonna have crushes. It's how a player chooses to feel. For me, Alisae and Alphinaud are just my friends. I got to watch them grow into the people they are now. I'm very proud of them.
I think it's fine long as it's like who the character is, People latch onto personalities; it doesn't have to be physical or predatory.
Not trying to distort real world boundaries, or rooted in harmful relationship power dynamics. If shipping comes from a good place in your mind, you can just dial the ages to wherever it's appropriate.
I think that's fair, no?