You people leave to fast

Other DPS, stick around for a sec so I can com u.

Other tank or healer, stick around for a sec so I can com u.

If I'm tank or healer in a 4 man, then the non dps opposite of me stick around for a sec so I can com u.

Ty and have a nice day Eorzea, Othard and Norvrant.

I always stick around. Commend away.

People always in a rush these days.

Yeah, people leave duties really fast and then complain here (or at least they did when the new mentor requirements were added) that they don't get enough for achievements and such.

Sorry, but I'm not going to stick around in case someone might commend me. I'd rather keep on playing. It also doesn't help that none of the commendation rewards interest me in the slightest.

If people care about comms they will stick around. If they leave quickly it means they probably don't care about the comms, so don't worry yourself over it too much.

I usually comm before rolling on loot, so at least if people stick for loot drops I can comm them. If they leave before the chest is even opened I assume they don't care for loot or comms.

I leave immediately, but I don't really need comms. I'm over 4k at this point.

I try to give someone a commendation before leaving, but a lot of people don't really do that.

I comm fast then leave I got stuff to do.

Well comm faster then. You know where the comm window in your UI is gonna pop; have your mouse hovering over the space, have the player name in mind so you can rapid fire click that name and boom, commed.

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Originally Posted by SenorPatty

Well comm faster then. You know where the comm window in your UI is gonna pop; have your mouse hovering over the space, have the player name in mind so you can rapid fire click that name and boom, commed.

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You underestimate just how fast people leave sometimes. By the time it's done automatically skipping the cutscene (so the fade to black and immediately back into the game) I've seen people disappear as soon as I can see again.

As a suggestion, though I'm aware this isn't a 'suggestion thread', it would be nice to be able to give people commendations after they've left while you're still in the duty. Other games that allow you to give people kudos of any kind often allow it, so it would be nice if it were possible here as well.

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Originally Posted by Doozer

You underestimate just how fast people leave sometimes. By the time it's done automatically skipping the cutscene (so the fade to black and immediately back into the game) I've seen people disappear as soon as I can see again.

As a suggestion, though I'm aware this isn't a 'suggestion thread', it would be nice to be able to give people commendations after they've left while you're still in the duty. Other games that allow you to give people kudos of any kind often allow it, so it would be nice if it were possible here as well.

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Pretty much. It's like "Good job guys! That healer deser-"

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I would love to be able to get a commendation to a person one way or another.

I never get commended anyway. No point in staying. :(

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Originally Posted by Vahlnir

Pretty much. It's like "Good job guys! That healer deser-"

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I would love to be able to get a commendation to a person one way or another.

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Yeah exactly. Sometimes I feel like someone really deserved it but they vanish before I can and then I feel bad because I know what it's like to think you did really well and then get no recognition after.

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Originally Posted by SturmChurro

I never get commended anyway. No point in staying. :(

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It's kind of hit and miss, and I think that's also related to people leaving so fast, so there's no one left to commend you. I seem to get them more if I say something, even if it's just "so what happened there" if there's a wipe. Though I think character name also plays a role, because I seem to be disproportionately noticed and commended (if I get any at all, of course), which I assume is just because people think my name is funny or something. Some of the really Lore Appropriate names tend to just blend together for some people after a while, so people tend to favour funny or clever names.

I get plenty of comms just by being the last person to leave the instance. Mostly because now that we don't get timed out so quickly when a duty ends, I like to go look around and check places out while it's already empty.

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Originally Posted by VictorTheed

Other DPS, stick around for a sec so I can com u.

Other tank or healer, stick around for a sec so I can com u.

If I'm tank or healer in a 4 man, then the non dps opposite of me stick around for a sec so I can com u.

Ty and have a nice day Eorzea, Othard and Norvrant.

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Ty I'm not there for the comms. I'd rather get out and do other things. Feel free to give it to someone who does stick around.

Hope you have a great day yourself.

Why would I stay just for a commendation that does almost nothing for me?
If I want to leave quickly, it's my choice, it isn't hurting anyone but your own ego.

I would never leave to fast, Im not religious

I honestly get a teeny weeny bit disappointed like "aww" when someone I want to com leaves ASAP.

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Originally Posted by DubiousDisk

Why would I stay just for a commendation that does almost nothing for me?
If I want to leave quickly, it's my choice, it isn't hurting anyone but your own ego.

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Then go ahead and leave. It's not hurting anyone's ego earlier. Some just like to be able to show their appreciation for those they feel deserve it in the form of a virtual high five.

jUsT cOmMeNd FaStEr!

remind me of my encounter with ghost party month ago

from start until finish no interaction whatsoever, they just quiet didnt say anything and not helpin that every one of them play really well like an npc set to "elite" or something. when the final boss die, screen fade to black (loading + auto skip cutscene already seen) and when my screen come back, everyone is gone, like they were never there as if i just went party with my imaginary party member or something lol

I always make it a point to hand out a commendation, though if I'm not waiting for loot to be dished out at the end of the duty then I typically take my leave swiftly. I'm not in need of commendations any longer. Which isn't to say I don't appreciate them - I'd just prefer them to go to someone who requires them.

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Originally Posted by Penthea

I honestly get a teeny weeny bit disappointed like "aww" when someone I want to com leaves ASAP.

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LoL same thing happened to me bout a week ago, adorable sweetheart little lala girl left so fast, we had good chats during the dungeon and everything, so I tried tracking her down on her server to let her know I was gonna com her and that I think shes awesome, but I couldn't find her, I was like I hope I don't seem stalkerish but I don't want her to think I didn't enjoy our time together cause she'll see she wasn't com'd.

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Originally Posted by Jojoya

Ty I'm not there for the comms. I'd rather get out and do other things. Feel free to give it to someone who does stick around.

Hope you have a great day yourself.

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That's the nicest way anyone on here has ever disagreed with me, ty for the kindness friend and sorry about triple posting but I can't figure out how to get all 3 my posts into one post through this phone.

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Originally Posted by SturmChurro

I never get commended anyway. No point in staying. :(

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I'd com u, I really mean it to, not BS'n ya.

I mean I leave normal raids so I don't get a bunch of junk in my inventory. :x

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Originally Posted by Doozer

It's kind of hit and miss, and I think that's also related to people leaving so fast, so there's no one left to commend you. I seem to get them more if I say something, even if it's just "so what happened there" if there's a wipe. Though I think character name also plays a role, because I seem to be disproportionately noticed and commended (if I get any at all, of course), which I assume is just because people think my name is funny or something. Some of the really Lore Appropriate names tend to just blend together for some people after a while, so people tend to favour funny or clever names.

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It's completely random, in my experience. The only place I really get commended consistently is like PoTD weirdly enough. I could solo heal and save a run and most of the time that happens I am lucky to get one, on a good day, two commendations. It makes me sad. People definitely do commend for random things, like people's glamour etc., or just not commend at all.

I kind of stopped bothering with expecting comms. I can do superb, be friendly, and explain mechs, yet receive nada at the end, regardless of roles I play. 9/10 times I'm not getting a comm anyway. So, I just put in my comm and be on my way.

A study shows that sticking around leads to more comendations. Of course this study has a miniscule sample size and may be extremely biased. :D

I usually give someone a comm, and then leave.

For a while, after I earned my Parade Chocobo (still the highest com reward, I think?), I used to book it out of instances specifically so folks COULDN'T com me, and they'd be encouraged to give the com to others that might need it more.

Nowadays, I don't bother. Let the coms fall where they may! (And as tank, they often fell on me.)

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Originally Posted by SturmChurro

I never get commended anyway. No point in staying. :(

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Be nice and you will get them :p

I've noticed when I stick around and wait for new players, players watching cutscenes, or etc, I get a lot more comms. In general, everyone's always in a rush these days.

FYI, there's a Challenge Log bonus for giving Comms.

Once you passed 3K and got your mount, you don't really extra comms, do you?

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Originally Posted by Jin-

Be nice and you will get them :p

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Don't think it's about being nice, personally I just think people genuinely just want to burn through and move on to their next roulette.

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Originally Posted by Hysterior

Once you passed 3K and got your mount, you don't really extra comms, do you?

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Maybe, I probably won't think about it much after that point. However, they may add a higher teir reward. If not, the required mentor amount will probably be raise beyond that at some point, so some people will want more.

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Originally Posted by SturmChurro

It's completely random, in my experience. The only place I really get commended consistently is like PoTD weirdly enough. I could solo heal and save a run and most of the time that happens I am lucky to get one, on a good day, two commendations. It makes me sad. People definitely do commend for random things, like people's glamour etc., or just not commend at all.

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Yeah, I was healing E6N the other day and everyone was determined to die, but I managed to pull it back from a wipe and even used healer LB3 twice in a single run. Can't really outheal falling off the edge I guess. At one point it was just me and the MT, but by the end we had everyone back. It took a long time and there were a lot of close calls. Got one commendation at the end. People were grateful in chat, but apparently not grateful enough.

Usually as a duty goes on I try to make note of who I think deserves it the most, to encourage them to do well in the future too. So it's extra annoying when they leave too fast.