As a blm main myself i know all to well about your first point, even with Quelling and at times waiting said amount to attack a target.
Actually reading your other points i have come across all 3. From time to time i do offer advice but also feel as though some may get offended so i hesitate also.
Palace is not to blame for bad players, the lack of wanting to be the best at your job and reading the skills is the reason for bad.
Bad players have existed before Palace ...
If we go that route then we could also say Fates are to blame for bad players, hunts are also to blame, etc..
