m8 I think they were agreeing with you. Not talking to you directly when they were talking about people being in a hurry. I worry that you're so quick to jump at the slightest chance of conflict and maybe that's part of your issue with dungeons?
I get anxious about tanking things I'm not familiar with as well, but if someone in the party has a problem with it, they can leave. That should generally be how it works.
