Originally Posted by
Greyhawk
You won't win your argument about adjusting to the wants (not needs) of the group when you are tank. You will never be right, get treated like crap and are expected to "perform" when the group cannot.
I read things like, "Why are you in a queue if you aren't going to respect your groups who want wall pulling", "stop being selfish", "stop casting Clemency, you're bringing down the group"...
I, along with other tanks, can easily counter these stupid remarks because things like the healer not healing and preferring to DPS does actually happen. We can counter these stupid remarks because DPS/Heals are disrespectful and arrogant towards tanks.
In short, it doesn't matter - tanks will be wrong no matter the case, no matter the circumstances, no matter what you do. Just keep doing you. So be it if they wanna get mad and throw a tantrum and leave. You'll still finish when they are waiting out timer and other queues. I don't ever treat groups when I am healing/DPSing like how I get treated most runs. Hell I even get belittled and ridiculed for just explaining some fights! /SMH.