Originally Posted by
VanillaWafer
"Fun?"
I'm sorry, but if playing poorly or sub-optimally is what you consider fun, then you can have that with your friends. As a mostly solo player, while I don't expect perfection and try to be friendly, but I'm not your friend to be messing with my time. Whether it's DF or PF, I'm there to fill a role and complete the instance so I can go my merry way.
Throwing the word "elitism" around is reckless, as I don't think people who just want to get the job done is like that. Pointing something out like a Dancer not using Closed Position on their fellow DPS for example, and their reason for doing so is because it's not Ultimate is a problem. People like you who are probably enabling this don't let the player grow and learn how to play their class well.
This becomes a vicious cycle until they meet the wrong one and tells them off, causing more stress.
Be better.