Quote Originally Posted by Greatguardian View Post
Your entitlement absolutely relies on the good graces of other players. If everyone is selfish and only plays one of their jobs, no one will get anywhere. If, out of your group of 20-odd 1-job players, only one of them likes White Mage at all, you're in trouble. If that person decides one day that White Mage is no longer fun, your group of 20 no longer has a single healer among them. Have fun with that.
I'd much rather that person have fun, especially if she is my friend, and continue playing instead of burning out and quitting or forcing her to do something she doesn't like. Even if we decided to find a WHM to go too, I wouldn't kick that person, nor would I demand or be angry with her for making that decision. It's certainly not selfish of her. I mean, do you tell a person who donates money to charity every year that the one year he doesn't donate because he ran out of money that he's selfish? Hell no. That would be disrespectful to the time he'd already donated, or in this case, kicking the person would be disrespectful to the time she'd already spent AND the help she can still bring outside the role of WHM simply because she'd ran out of patience (or the idea that it was fun) to play WHM. Even if the person had always been a BST, despite being a "lesser job" as it was oh so recently put, they're still bringing something, even if it's just help killing the monster faster, taking care of adds, holding things when people die, etc.