So you complained that I put words in your mouth but you do the same? Refuse to group with another player has nothing to do with measuring that person's worth. I don't view an individual "worthless" if they play BST. Sometimes I'd invite them, sometimes I don't. If I choose not to, it's often because of other factors(and that involves 5 other person in the pt and how they have fun), that has nothing to do with how I view that person.
What I meant by "taking it to personal lv" is, you used the word "measure everyone's worth" instead of "measure every job's worth".
I've never say anything about dmg being the only thing that matters either, it is you who continue to make it sound like that players in FFXI are full of super obsessive SAM only elitists with 0 grey area nor compromise.
If anything this isn't black and white, everyone also has a different threshold toward this issue. Not everyone is extremely super obsessive about dmg that they must have max output, at least I don't....or else I'd play SAM instead of BLU. That doesn't mean I can turn a blind eye and pretend I'm having fun if I see someone purposely make certain decisions without respecting 5 other pt member's opinion about fun. And that doesn't mean I won't try my best to do as much dmg as possible when I play BLU either.
Everyone has different goals when they do event, some wants to play their job in a certain way, or try a different setup, some wants to grind as much plasm per hour. If you want to play a job in a certain way, just pt with like minded player, and vice versa. And it is leader's responsibility to make sure everyone has similar goals and able to accept each other's goals in a team.
If you want to role play, you can't force someone else aiming for max plasm/hr to pt with you. You won't have fun with them pushing you for faster kill, and they won't have fun with someone slowing them down. In the end both sides won't have fun, you can't change that.
Thus, exclude others is completely legit. It's not because I look down toward someone so I choose to exclude them, I do that because the team and that person has different goals, and a team must have same goals to move forward....and have fun together.



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