Kings, HNMS, Tiamat, Vrtra back in the 75 cap days would like you sit down and drink your cup of STFU now.
Cause 3AM phone calls for "Tiamat popped, get on or your kicked from the shell" really makes FFXI a hard game >.> Na it makes Real life with an enjoyable casual retreat(aka FFXI) a hard game.
I play FFXI to get away from retarded wait times, idiots, asshole bosses, and deadend jobs. So i can be somewhat happy and have time to collect my thoughts, all while having some level of social life.
I don't play this game to be like a inception of life. Of shitty life that when inside a game that emulates and takes on a shittier life to create a magnitude of shitty retardedness. So yes, the game should be dam near always enjoyable, regardless if I'm watching paint dry in my mog house or fighting the harbinger of a dev teams Mother in the game.
With the time frame you mentioned you played, i take it you never done any of the kings back then. You have no idea what the retarded wait times in this game has driven people to do or what people have done for this "so called" and "apparently justified" hard worked for loot and treasure.
High wait times like the HNM system has contributed to:
3rd party tools development, cause having my PC's whole screen locked illegally by SE until recently was a lot of fun.
Taking a break from real life. To obtain that Item that would maximize my character. Who needs sleep? Social life? Sex life? money for food? when I got this shinny ridill. (At this time, i'd like everyone to think about Pandemonium warden 18 hour fight, think about it, feel that stupidity, feel it, ok, now run with it. We should now all be on the same page)
Botting. Eventually some players got smart just like a criminal does(70% of our brightest people in the world are in jail for trying to beat the system, they just had poor moral ethics and choices to end up there), why sit around for days on a NM that only pops 1/3rd the year, and has a 1% chance of dropping an item. We've already burned the rule book with windower, why not piss out the ashes and just cheat/probably get banned/quit. Then come back and use the same tool to grind right back up in record time!