Although I do feel sorry for OP, and I understand that it is infuriating and that is sucks, like others have said - There's nothing any one here can do about it. If anything, you might have a better shot on one of the other boards rather than General Discussion.

https://forum.square-enix.com/ffxiv/...hnical-Support
https://forum.square-enix.com/ffxiv/...Ticket-Created


Then again, as others have clearly pointed out - and I for one agree with a lot of them - You had to click "Confirm" multiple times and you failed to read the server's name. Yeah, it sucks, yeah it ain't fun, but let's not pretend that this is SE's fault.
Can SE be more lenient in this? Absolutely. But they also have to draw a line somewhere. Want to know what happens when they make exceptions? People will abuse it, and point towards the case where said exception is. "But they got to bypass..." Is exactly what SE wants to avoid and so they uphold their policy.

Again, I feel for you OP but the simple fact is, SE likely won't budge. There is a reason why you have to click to confirm multiple times and get shown a text to read as well.

Even if you thought the server was right, that's honestly on you. You failed to read the warnings properly, and that's really just it - a mistake. Just let it be a lesson for next time, always double/triple read when you confirm things that you know will impact you.