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Tbh, this is getting a little bit creepy, this sound more and more like some kind of personal issues with one another and one party just come here to seek some kind gratification and validation. Not the first time it had happened, and it's not the first time they get rebuke either. The internet, naturally is a place for a lot of skepticism for good reason. Most people won't be convinced with just one side of the story. And usually, the kind of people who seek personal validation with stranger are often not the type who know how to carry their story in an empathetic manner like you two had demonstrated.
He shouldn't have brought it the forum and handled it better, I agree. I'll be speaking with him about it later today if he comes on.
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And my advise, stop trying to pretend to be the "nice" party here. Right or wrong aside, I don't think there will be many people who read the whole thread will be remotely convinced that the two of you are nice people by any standard given the way you're been talking, even if you're given the benefit of the doubt to be the "right" party ... Like someone else had said near the beginning, even if the "offendee" was totally in the wrong, the OP already more or less brought himself to the same level with his opening post, and that means the two of you have been sinking below that since.
Then don't threaten people with a report over a cookie trade when there was zero provocation of any kind. This thread wouldn't exist in the first place if people just chilled out over something so small. If you treat people with respect they will be respectful back to you most of the time. The rest of the time you get this type of player. He can come here and defend himself if he wants, in fact I encourage it. I'm just calling it as I see and hear it. Maybe he was just having a bad day, I completely get that. But you shouldn't take it out on innocent people.