Originally Posted by
Kira619
1st. there are no "facts" when it comes to considering if an environment is toxic, because the idea of toxic isn't factually based. It's entirely based on the opinion of a person and their morals. This is largely why we're seeing two different viewpoints between what the majority of WoW like mindset finds toxic (such as toxic positivity), and what the majority of FFXIV like mindset find toxic (such as unsolicited advice.) So, every person's viewpoint on toxic here will be based on the biases and opinion of what matters to them.
2nd, Did I say that he was out to get me? Of course not. Asking someone to not invalidate me has nothing to do with them having a vendetta against me. I largely believed he may not have understood how his statement or the mindset you posted above is invalidating, because as indicated in my previous post, it clearly is. But I never indicated his statement meant he had a vendetta against me.
With that said, I can already tell that you find the mindset, which is invalidating, as acceptable due to idea that one is inexperienced. So, there's no further point in me discussing this with you. Take care.