Originally Posted by
Dot21g
So, uh... this one experience has been a while already, but I found it so bizarre that I thought it'd be a waste not to share.
So anyway. I was leveling my PLD to 80 in Mt. Gulg, had a SCH as healer. They were struggling with bigger pulls from the beginning, also because both of the DPS just kept standing in goo, so I was taking it slowly. During the first boss, one DPS went down, the other was close to dead too, and the healer was having a hard time keeping everyone alive (including themself), so I used Clemency a couple times on them and myself to give them a breather and prevent a wipe. Then the healer goes "what are you doing, stop healing". We killed the boss somehow, and suddenly the SCH starts attacking me for "stealing their job" or some such.
I was genuinely baffled and confused because I could not fathom how people could attack another player for making full use of their skillset and trying to help, so I said "Well, it looked like you were struggling. I didn't mean to undermine your authority as healer. Sorry to offend." And they went like "ok, have it your way". Which meant... that they stopped healing me altogether. Like, through the entire dungeon.
I was really close to leaving and just eating the penalty, but then again, I didn't want to punish the DPS for the healer's fragile little ego (that, and because I can be a stubborn mule), so I continued with smaller pulls and some help from Eos (I think), clemencying my way through the dungeon, while the healer just used Broil, if they weren't just standing around twiddling their thumbs.
It was... an interesting experience. At the end of the run, I apologized to the DPS for the slow and bumpy ride and thanked them, then told the healer that they were a real piece of work and had some growing up to do before leaving. Also blacklisted them, because I don't need people with nasty attitudes and fragile egos souring my otherwise great experience with the game.