So...have do you make friends?

Use your words! If you want to connect with people, youre going to have to communicate.

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Originally Posted by Saiah

Use your words! If you want to connect with people, youre going to have to communicate.

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Yeah...that doesn't always work. Especially when people use nothing but their LS, not the FC chat, and basically NEVER talk outside of afore mentioned LS.

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Originally Posted by Avatre

Yeah...that doesn't always work. Especially when people use nothing but their LS, not the FC chat, and basically NEVER talk outside of afore mentioned LS.

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You simply cannot be friends with everyone. Not everyone gets along. Personalities differ. Find out who matches you with one simple trick: communication.

If people do not bother to communicate outside of their own ponds. Why would you want to be friends with them? Find people who are willing to talk to you. By communicating.

Its not rocket science. I dont understand why you dismiss it in such a negative manner. Do you have a better idea? If theres somekind of magic way to make friends that doesnt require me to talk to people, then id be glad to hear it.

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Originally Posted by Joven

Back when I first started, while leveling crafting I would randomly offer people pants...

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Pants are the enemy! >.>

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Originally Posted by RitsukoSonoda

Pants are the enemy! >.>

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I completely agree, however, for the sake of modern decency I shall endure the evil. :3

To make friends I just strike up random conversations..but I actually have never actively tried really..I just be myself and things happen :)

Another thing I notice is most people seem friendly and more than happy to talk too, just takes a little bit to get things rolling :D

So many people responding but not many people realise how hard it is for people with social anxiety :(.

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Originally Posted by Chiramu

So many people responding but not many people realise how hard it is for people with social anxiety :(.

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Someone who saw this thread decided to try messaging me ingame, ugh, after I wrote how is it feeling when random people contacting me.

As for good news after a little meditation too boost self-confidence joined some random fc... but already feel I don't belong there.

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Originally Posted by Chiramu

So many people responding but not many people realise how hard it is for people with social anxiety :(.

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Yep...that's me as well.

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Originally Posted by DDkiki

Someone who saw this thread decided to try messaging me ingame, ugh, after I wrote how is it feeling when random people contacting me.

As for good news after a little meditation too boost self-confidence joined some random fc... but already feel I don't belong there.

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It is really hard to speak to people like that XD; they say, "hi" so I got, "hey" back, then awkward :P.