To be perfectly fair, the pair of you are doing exactly the same thing.
Here's the fact of the matter.
Some people run into a low level dungeon with the intent to speed run it like WP circa 2.1 bolting ahead and pulling everything that moves and completely ignoring a tanks pleas for help.
On the other hand, you may be content to run at any given pace and help a tank out, who then proceeds to mindlessly spam fracture on a single target with no response to your communication attempts at all. Your potential help is just further wasted time, it's a lost cause.
I'm sure everyone here is sensible enough to realize the middle ground is where 95% of runs go.
