This reminds me of something I sometimes say to some of my friends when it comes to MMOs.
"It's not the game itself I really hate. It's the people that play it that I hate."
I will never understand why people do this. People have this selfish attitude of "Me! It's all about ME!" going for themselves when it comes to dungeon runs. This game was designed with teamwork in mind, but half the player base doesn't seem to understand the concept of the word "teamwork" at all. I'd go on, but if I allowed myself to fully vent out my frustrations about how much I hate humanity when it comes to the internet and MMOs, there'd be way too many paragraphs to read. So yeah. o.o
I'd be willing to help you and your friend via making slower pulls myself and build up to bigger pulls as a Tank player myself. It helps to ease people into healing big pulls over just "OMG! ZERG RUSH NOWZ!" type of pulling. (Though I had to learn it that way sadly)
