Originally Posted by
Skivvy
So let me preface this by saying I love healing, have been a WHM main since my XI days, but I struggled something fierce when it came to leveling AST to 70. While it wasn't often by any means, I had some moments where I completely blanked mid-fight. I'm not sure if it was the juggling of cards, or perhaps the lack of almost-infinite MP like WHM, or just the unfamiliarity of the class, but yeah, I went full-on deer in headlights mode. lol. It was awful, and I caused some questionable wipes on the newer dungeons that I could breeze through on my WHM.
Now I'm the type of person that will always apologize if I do something stupid, so perhaps that helps to defuse things within the party, but I do know personally sometimes people can just blank when in a new situation. I was being the bad healer in those instances as my reflexes just didn't kick in, much like the healers in the story above, but I would have been equally annoyed had I received some snarky replies over a mistake that was remedied on the next attempt.