I've finally hit the point of no longer trying to force game time in. It's actually been extremely refreshing to not have a feeling that I'm somehow behind on stuff. Seal Rock is getting better each run, and while I'll be lucky if I see the Field Commander's coat this year, it's far better than running EX roulette. Honestly getting that coat for glamor is more of a priority than getting full eso gear, and I'm only capping because I'm enjoying PVP.
That said, I've been playing other games and finding more time to do stuff I've been wanting/needing to do. So all in all, I'm enjoying the "rut".
