Here's what it boils down to. People group with whom they wish. Its really that simple.
You cannot be booted from a Trial unless 4 people out of the other 7 decide you must go. If its because they think you're in tank stance too often, then that's their will. If they don't like your glamor, hairstyle, character's eye color.. those are all valid (if strange) reasons. You can call it abuse all you want. But in reality where is that going to get you? You think a GM is going to place you back in the group, shake their finger at the 'abusers' and say 'play nice now...'.
You think they are going to take revenge in your honor on them and suspend the people? Sure.. they MIGHT look into it, but failing harassment in group chat, they'll likely take no action. Telling you to use an ability isn't harassment, its strategy, and if you're not conforming to the rest of the group, YOU are being disruptive and can be actioned. Duty Finder is a dictatorship of the majority. All it takes is four against one, even if the other 3 agree with you, you're on your way out.
I personally don't care what stance a tank is in as long as they don't kill themselves and don't get anyone else killed. I expect the DPS to do the DPS that is required of the encounter. That's my opinion. But that is ONLY an opinion. If I'm in a group and they decide they want the tank to pull so however much DPS, then sucks to be that tank I guess. Nothing I can do about it. I can click no on the vote kick, but what will that do? Tank is still being booted at the end of the day in that scenario.
Like I said, if the majority of a group wants you to bunny hop, you're going to be hopping or looking for another group. Premades is the only way to avoid that nonsense.
