Originally Posted by
Laurell
I'm one of these "tanks near 40" they spoke of and while I cannot speak for everyone else I found people started getting quite nasty around the mid 30's. The list is a mile long but to give an example - I was asked to leave my very first Stone Vigil, before the first pull even, so they could get a tank who had experience. I always read up or watched videos multiple times before fights, was always particular about my gear, am usually quite chipper and cracking light jokes, but due to a general negative feeling I ended up leaving Paladin where it sat. There really are no trinkets SE could give me to pick up the job again, the fault really lies in the fact people can be as nasty as they want to someone when they probably will never see them again. After I left Paladin I became a Scholar and I cannot tell you how many different times I've had tanks thank me for being kind and patient with them when they are new. Often I've found out their experiences mirrored my own, which is quite sad.