Originally Posted by
Kazamoto
When talking about a community, one must also consider how an individual relates to that community.
If a person has 8 failed marriages, is the issue with the people they marry, or perhaps with the person themselves?
I intentionally did not quote ANYONE in this thread, but if you look back on this thread, and compared the way people typed, to their stance on the issue, i think statistically, my observation would hold true.
Are you suggesting it is impossible for the people who are being rude in this thread, to be received negatively into a community, and have a negative response?
The substance of this argument, is the communities of these games. Some view the FFXI community as mostly welcoming and helpful. Others view the community as closed and elitist.
A community is made of of individuals, and the truest answer is the FFXI community had individuals that were helpful, and it had individuals who were toxic.
My point, is that the people who seem to have had negative experiences, speak in a manner, that would suggest they are of the latter rather than the former.