Only happens that they return to idle if there was zero healing done. I've never seen it where they start attacking a healer without that heal.
I was just in party finder the other day, looking for a party to practice e6s, joined, hasn't even got enough people yet to start. I got kicked out :D
Rule #1 when you get insulted, don't be insulted.
Just keep being nice to the person or write nothing at all.
When you start insulting back or write something like you did, then you give them also a reason to report you.
But when you stay nice or silent then the insulting person will get even more mad and gives clearer evidence for a ban.
If you don't want to throw the fight, then just do it and say that you are just a bad player or got distracted by the chat.
Pulled Shiva for trials roulette. Both tanks refused to put on tank stance even when asked. As a healer I was constantly moving around so when the tanks managed to get all the dps killed I was still alive to raise them. One tank seemed to be a new player and it almost seemed to me like they were practicing tank swaps, but sheesh did placement suck, like a practice tank swap performed while the tank moving to MT was standing smack bang in the middle of the dps.
Ran an expert Monday, cause I realized I hadn't capped my main for the week yet. Ran on WHM. Heroes' Gauntlet, yippee! PLD, DNC, and DRG. Cool. First pull everything fine. I let the PLD's HP slink down to 38k, Benediction'd them, and then the pull was over when they were back down to 90k or so. Topped them while waiting for the path to open.
Next part, they stopped short at the monks and golems. I'm not sure why. Me and the Dancer went further and agro'd the next 3, which we brought back to the PLD. This slowed the dungeon down a tad, and the DRG was semi-absent from the pull.
First boss going ok, DRG taking some vuln stacks, whatever, a lot of melee do usually. Keeping them topped. Giving them regens and even using Divine Benison on them. Well, they were topped and it did the double circle jump AOEs, and they got clipped by both and the wind AOEs that go out on every, so they instantly died. I swiftcast raise, and they they deny the raise and home point. OK...
After that, next pull OK, but DRG still absent for all of it. Comes in to help with the next pull. Dancer ran ahead and hit everything, idk what was going on, if they were friends and the PLD wanted to kick me or what. No one was talking and the PLD was being especially slowish about everything while the DRG barely participated.
Second boss, DRG tethers me for some reason. Then tried laying their zombies on top of me. Nobody died, but they did almost kill me(and themself). Went down a little slow. We've been in dungeon almost 17 minutes when it finally dies. Next pulls go as expected, but PLD maintains their snail pace and the DNC be sprinting.
Last boss goes OK, but dies more slowly than I'd ever seen. Afterwards, no one talks, everyone but PLD and me insta leave. PLD leaves. I leave. No comms. I usually get one comm on healer, so the whole run was just one aberration after another. I gave a comm to the Dancer, as the PLD didn't really seem keen on Holy Circle use, though they at least used Confiteor. Sad thing is, the PLD and DRG had SoS weapons and loads of i500, so I know they could play well if they wanted to play well. THey just... didn't...
Ridoranna in Alliance roulette. I am on Rez Mage, and the rest of the Alliance is sniffing glue it seems, because as it turned out noone in our Alliance was new. We somehow manage thanks to me being out mana on general basis, but eh. The moment i stopped Verraise spam on the final boss, due to me derping on one of the mechanics, our whole Alliance soon followed. 15 Verraises, 0 commendations. I do not expect to get showered in comms, but at least 1 would have been nice. The final insult that i rolled the 92 on the minion and the shitty AST in our group, whom i had to rez 6 times, rolled 99.