Don't waste your time he just don't understand. FFXI/FFXIV is not other mmo PVP is not there goal, even if they add PVP it be something no one really would do because they would be 100x more stuff to do in PVE you be busy all day.
I don't understand the players that say there noting to do in FFXI, when you could easy do a few thing you don't need ppl for like craft, or do some campaign battle.
PVP,PVE,RP world would cut down the player base, There to many MMO out there and we wont have that many players. I for one not seeing ffxiv having anymore then a few mil players. They wont ever have 12+mil like wow that just to crazy of a dream.
