Originally Posted by
Raven2014
And your point being?
As a single child Asian, I can speak with confident I'm taking care of my parents 365 a day better than most Westerner I know do on their parents birthday. But I always look forward to occasions to kick up a not to celebrate and make it even extra special for them, like birthdays, anniversary, holiday.
Have you ever attend an marriage anniversary? like 20years, 40 years, or heck even 60 years? I'm 101% those couples know and practice "caring for others" far more than you ever preach in your life ... doesn't stop them from celebrating on the occasions doesn't it?
No disrespect, and while I agree with you in spirit, I can't help but think people whenever making their grand statement are hollow and empty. Now if you say it to people who never give a damn about each other except for that one day per year, then I understand. But in general human for the most part are social creatures, and they also say "change is the spice of life". If people want to celebrate with each others, that's always a good thing, and for a celebration to be special, it's usually mean doing something that you don't do everyday.