Originally Posted by
RyuujinZERO
Sadly I wish this is how it worked.
On several occasions now we've had inexperienced tanks, and my attempt to explain the fight was met with them telling me to STFU/blame me or the healer and then bail, leaving us to start all over again queuing for 30-40 minutes. As DPS you learn a golden rule of dungeons VERY VERY fast:
Never,
...question the tank's decisions
...try and explain a fight
...pull aggro
...ninja mobs
...and for the love of god, never EVER try and tell a tank how to do his job
breaking the above ruels as a DPS or healer almost guarantees you'll be back on the duty finder for another half hour.
While your friend may have wanted, need or even appreciated help. The behaviour of the majority of PUG tanks ensure that no DPS or healer will dare pipe up and give him the advice he needs, and by the time they are willing to talk, it's because they'll already have decided the run is over at which point the knives come out expressing their frustration before the team dissolves.