Originally Posted by
Atoli
Fine, let's go with that comparison. I play Basketball on a team. Of course I am supposed to know the rules and to show up for practice once or twice a week. But it's a team that plays "for fun", not one we get paid for to play in, so our level is way below professional teams. Still, there are a few people who take it really serious, come to practice 5 days a week, train even outside of official practice and of course, are heaps and bounds better than others. But the thing is - just because two people are that motivated to put a crazy amount of effort into a hobby, does not mean they can expect it from everyone else too. The standard of the team is not suddenly going to rise to the level of the few elites, so either the elites just enjoy play a more casual game with the others or they leave and join a more competitive team.
MMOs are pretty much the same: you won't be able to force people into getting as "good" as you want them to be. Either you accept that someone who only comes to practice once a week (aka does not use a parser or does not read his skill descriptions, reads no guides or does not care about equipment) just won't be as good as you who enjoys putting more effort in, or you leave the team that does not live up to your standards (meaning you stop playing with random people in DF or PF and join a static of like-minded people to play with).