Reading comprehension is not your forte, hmm?
I specifically said three people. If you queue into a dungeon having already decided you won't DPS as a healer. You are disregarding what three other people may prefer. That scenario is only flipped if you promptly ask the tank to pull less since you're new. Should they oblige, then I'd be selfish to purposely pull extra to speed things up. It's a one versus the many argument. One person (the healer) deciding to slow the run down because its their preference regardless of the other players.
If you bothered to read what I actually wrote, you'd know that was not the case. Your argument cited so long as people meet the ilvl requirement, they aren't being carried. I used Savage as an example because Raid Finder has an ilvl. You cannot access A12S without being ilvl 255. Thus, I took your argument and applied to Savage. And yes, that is the definition of a carry. You did substantially more work compared to someone else. We call those instances carries in MMOs. This isn't unique to FFXIV.
Once again, no it isn't. Unless that healer had no opportunity to DPS, the tank and actual DPS carried them. Why? Because in any other scenario, a DPS healer makes the run faster and smother. To your own example, if you swapped those numbers around to where say, a Monk only managed 500 DPS. They were carried.
