And what was it he said that broke it? Can't fix it when you are not told. That is the entire issue here. He knows the violation, but not what caused the violation. It does nothing to help the person learn or fix the issue.
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It costs nothing to be more aware of how you speak to strangers. People act like it's impossible to know what might've done it, but I don't feel that way. I know when something I say might get me in trouble, but I'm still fully free to speak to other players in game.
Be nicer to people, and choose your words carefully if you have to be critical of someone (like giving gameplay-related suggestions). And limit the profanity. It's not difficult. I've been in plenty of verbal scraps in-game and have yet to be even warned. If someone gets in trouble for it, clearly what they said was significant enough to gaol them. If they can't remember that, again, that's their problem. Be mindful of how you interact with other people. Not sure how many other ways I can say it.
What is nice in one circle may not be in another. You cannot know what is and isn't unless informed of what it is. This is why everywhere but public opinion they let you know exactly what you are being punished for or charged with. Not simply "You violated this rule". They Point out exactly what you did to violated said rule. It is literally the only way one can learn from their mistakes.
I'm not really interested in the shame parade either (although his comments about cancel culture and the Twitter example he gave make me suspicious). but I'm also not interested in defending him against SE because they've made their position on the matter clear: they will not tell you what specifically you said, because then you could track down who reported you.
although I will drop the tip that if you find yourself waiting in the gaol again, simply send in a report for harassment that says "hey, I'm in the gaol," and a GM should get to you faster.
You're right. So if you screw around with your friends, swearing every third word, calling each other names and stuff, that doesn't mean strangers are okay with it.
People have said that the infraction in question isn't referred to in detail to avoid attacking the people that may have done the reporting. The OP knows what rule they broke, so from now on its best for them to use caution when interacting with strangers.
Some of you act like it's impossible to avoid offending people when thousands of other players do it every single day. It is possible. Just be nicer to people. At best, if you absolutely cannot control yourself, be neutral. Most people who play this are adults, so maybe they need to start acting like it and figure it out themselves. You don't always get what you want in life. So just act like an adult and don't be an ass to everyone you meet. Pretty simple.
you only really get dragged off to jail if someone reports you for it. I swear all the time on FC chat, because I know the people there will not report it. but if someone tells you, you've used offensive language you should not need to be told "you called little Johnny a [redacted] yesterday" to know "hey, maybe I should watch my mouth in public channels."