When did OP's expectation get distorted into this:
This what the BS elitist strawman looks like(they are so bad they can press 1,2,3...) This so bogus. This just means the so called bad players the don't press any buttons and just stands around. The OP is asking why people don't optimize. But it quickly turned into an excuse to bash other 99% players that are not to the elitists' liking.
What you are talking about are trolls. There are the mouthy types and then there are the silent ones. If they are repeatedly causing wipes, you can vote kick them.
On the other hand, there are players who are inexperienced, new, undergeared etc. If those players are learning, trying to adapt and getting wiped, then that is how the breaks go. They need a place to practice to "have a blast". Wipes are part of the game. If you don't like that, you can leave. Wipes are in no way impacting enjoyment, sometimes wipes are necessary for the enjoyment, since it should not always be about face-rolling content.
The problem are the elitist who have no patience and want to force speed runs. So what if the run takes all two hours if everyone it putting their earnest effort? What is so wrong that it is slower? Player need to learn to walk before they can run. Player will learn to add those 2 or 3 more skills to rotation once they sort things out (sometimes it is more involved figuring out how to organize the 20 odds skills on a controller etc. they are just not going to it instantly.) It takes time. And it does NOT matter if you only see them once on the DF. Do you want to leave a good impression or bad one? The key is that the enjoyment is playing together and helping each other and making friends. That should be more important than gear, tomestone, speed runs etc.
