I don't think you're exactly qualified to determine when something like sexuality or gender identity begins to take shape in a person's psyche.
There is nothing inherently "gay" or "feminine" about heels. That's like saying pink is a girly color or something. Yes, at this point societally we recognize that these gender norms exist but that doesn't mean they're naturally that way. There is nothing inherently less masculine about the color pink compared to the color blue, that's not how those things work.
Also I agree with Nestama, just no kid-looking Viera please. People are creepy, don't help them.
