Originally Posted by
Cherie
Clearing doesn't really mean a whole lot. As human beings we all want some binary to know if we will be successful with various people, but I think we all know that we aren't going to get one. Why do we still pretend there is one that exists?
It's like relationships. When people agree to go out on a date with another person, we try to pretend we will get along with someone because we have some common interest and then the date goes horribly. Instead of just chalking it up to a bad pairing, we want to blame it on like "well they don't really like this thing we shared in common, THEY LIED!".... No, not really. Some people just don't work well together. Same thing with party finder. Both people could be good at a fight and just work poorly together. That's just life. If people want to actually succeed, they just keep trying to or they find someone else to play with. I feel the worst for people that just jump from group to group constantly wanting some magic instant win. It's kind of like going on 100 first dates and just hoping for a magical prince charming instead of actually getting to know anyone or actually trying.