BTW: Since everyone hates on peeps that don't accept and automatically assume they troll here is one reason why one might miss the queue unintentionally: Incorrect wait estimates.
http://s26.postimg.org/nj49d0nxl/image.png
For those that have a different layout:
Estimated time: 6 minutes
Waited time: 87:33
Now do you think I'll sit in front of my PC all that time doing nothing?
Naah. Also I'll probably craft / do other stuff. 45s is a small window of opportunity, small enough that you can't finish a synth or a fight and respec.
Getting punished for that.... WHAT ARE YOU SMOKING, DEVS?!
I already missed my long ass DPS queue and have to wait again ISN'T THAT PUNISHMENT ENOUGH?! Do I really have to wait ANOTHER 30 minutes on top of it just because you feel it's cool?
