
Originally Posted by
Cyranda
No, they don't, and I'd say your attitude is more annoying. You've essentially stated that they can only really come when it *doesn't matter*, and when it actually does (or you think it does, anyway), you don't take them. Man, is that ever a great position to be in! "Well, there's no reason not to bring you today, Mrs. BST, so you can come. If it matters, though, to hell with you!" That's more of a reason to feel victimized than not because you're essentially being a fair-weather friend and will selfishly strip them of fun whenever it suits you. And yes, it IS more selfish for you to do that because the VAST majority of the time, them coming on BST won't hinder anyone, and probably still help to boot (some help is better than none).