/meh... maybe I've just been blessed with the linkshells I've had over the years... we always do just that--help each other out. We recently took on 3 newbs in our shell. They are planning to do one of their first Genkai's tonight. I did it for another one last month with Fenrir. I just spent 6 hours in vunkerl for the express reason of getting feet. I started it by myself, and brought in two lsmates...then a few more, then found people in the zone that needed unclaimed feet and brought them in. One was a complete stranger--he invited me the next day when he found my DRG feet in a chest. What goes around, comes around.
And we are always picking up items for eachother--or making them. I make jugs all the time for our BST when they ask. I even grab chigoes when I run across them on the AH just to keep some on hand for when people need the jugs---but that's just me. The point is, if you have joined up with a group in an LS it is usually for a reason--that being, having a group to help each other do stuff. If they aren't getting help from that group--maybe they need to seek out a new group. If they don't have a group yet, they should be asking around. I still see lots of people in Bastok. The synergy furnaces are being used a lot there, and there are base mats for smithing, alchemy, and goldsmithing there often as well--mostly just the weekends, so there is a timing element involved sometimes.
While I agree, it isn't as easy as it used to be--it isn't borked to the point that the game is unplayable. Everyone makes it sound like it is going to kill the game. If that's true, than why do I see so many people trying to form dunes/qufim parties still? They obviously are managing to get through the game somehow.....